Archive for January, 2009
Certainly not fun if you and your partner are in a “cold war”, mutual silence and the atmosphere became stiff. This usually happens when you hit discord and spouse, Moreover if both sides feel justified and proud to begin reconciliation. Arguments are normal in a relationship. Sometimes the arguments even make your relationship stronger, because it made the argument as a positive sign. Do not fight too long. If a disagreement occurs, try the following ways:
1. But avoid silence. Unless your partner is a psychic, it is difficult to understand the feelings and content of your mind if silent. Conversely, if the silent partner, try to persuade it to talk, for example by making his favorite cup of lemon tea.
2. Men and women tend to have different ways of the communicating
Women tend to be more sensitive and did not talk directly to the point, while men tend to talk straight to the point. Because of that try to explore the core issues you want to discuss with your partner. Limit the discussion to the issue only to be straightforward.
3. Lower your pride and ego when talking about a problem. Read the rest of this entry »

