Archive for January, 2010
Men do not like romance, Women who prefer things sweet and loving. “The statement was not entirely true, because the man was actually like things like this, just a different way. Doug Fields, author of Creative Romance says, when asked to define a romantic, he will use the word, mystery, intrigue, sensuality, underwear, passion, and sex without stopping. Want to lull her husband into a romance? Try the following tips:
1. Dressed up for him
Visual resources for fun, try to wear clothes in which he had bought for you. Or maybe never do it? Now it’s time you take it to the lingerie shop for women, ask what kind of model he likes and he thinks you are fit to wear. Men are visual creatures who will treat you very romantic if you can bring into the world full of fantasy. Use this as a tool to make the more he was crazy about you.
2. The touch of love
The touch does not merely mean sex, but a touch that made him feel comfortable will be remembered. For example with a touch on the shoulder when eating together the touch of comfort from a woman can be very reassuring for him. In the non-verbal language, he will interpret smears love as “I accept you, I love you” we are in a team. Touches of this kind of love should not lead to a sexual direction.
3. Let him have fun with her boyfriend
This may sound strange, that the intention you were not exactly romantic, in fact, many men who missed the bachelor days. They miss the days having fun with my friends, but fear if you do not let go. Occasionally, encourage her to spend time with male friends. They will feel glad to be out for a moment from the routine. When the wife can show that he did not always feel worried, like the old courtship, it would be nice for him. Read the rest of this entry »
The purpose of communication is that you and your partner can understand each other In order for an increase in the quality of your relationship. Therefore, communication is often referred to as the basis of success of a relationship. But communicating is not just talk but need some skills in order to achieve communication goals. These three skills are:
1. Skills for listening
This is a very difficult thing for the practice. Though they have ears to hear, not necessarily you really listen to the message mate. Show your partner that you hear so-delivered with a response. Your posture is also important to convince the couple that he was being heard and understood. Maintain eye contact with a partner and posture are not suggesting that you are not lounging. You also sued the couple can empathize, to understand what is thought, felt and experienced. So it can look at the problem from the perspective of the couple.
2. Skills to express yourself and your Feelings
This was not easy. Avoid words that make your message is not clear and accurate. Focus on the things I wanted to say and do not graze other problems. Do not give the message that is incompatible with your attitude and expression. Honesty is also important expressed. Read the rest of this entry »


