Many women experience depression during pregnancy and after childbirth. But now, a new study found that fathers also often experience depression before and after his wife gave birth.

After childbirth, many women suffer ‘baby blues.” This is a term for an unstable emotional state, the tendency to frequent crying, difficulty concentrating and depression.

Fact noted about one in five women who give birth experience this syndrome. But according to a new study, the situation after the birth of a child, in which more attention devoted to babies and new mothers, making the father had also experienced ‘baby blues.”

Dr. James Paulson, a child psychologist at Eastern Virginia Medical College, recently studied the results of 43 studies on depression experienced by the fathers around the world. Her discovery is very interesting.

“We use a series of statistical techniques and the objective to find literature or reading materials or studies that examine the level of depression in fathers. Ten point four percent of fathers were depressed significantly. For comparison, in the U.S. alone, nearly five percent of men in general experience depression,” said Paulson.

While the normal hormone changes that could affect women’s suffering, experts expect a sudden change in lifestyle after having a baby may trigger depression experienced by the father. The father who is depressed, more likely to behave negatively than their wives, and according to Paulson, long-term studies have shown that depression in fathers can have serious consequences on families and their children.

“If the fathers were depressed, their children at the age of three and a half years tend to have emotional and behavioral problems. In the age of seven, the same children have greater mental health problems,” she added.

And, if someone suffered depression, are often also infected partner.

“Depression in the mother and the father related. We found no positive correlation, clear, consistent and strong enough. So we can say is that depression in fathers and mothers are interconnected, “Paulson added.

Paulson added that the present health care providers should also be noted that depression occurs in the father.

“We, as physicians, need to be realized that postpartum depression is a significant problem in men, and men at high risk of depression as they await the birth of a child and when they have a baby at home,” he explained.

Paulson research results published in the Journal of the American Medical Association

If you are an accessories enthusiast, you should not carelessly wearing random jewelry. Unlike the accessories made from gold, imitation jewelry, if they are not compatible with the skin can become allergic reaction.

Scientists from the University Of Giessen, Germany, claim to have found the reason for the relatively cheap jewelry or imitations can cause allergies and cause a painful skin rash.

Many women who wear a pair of earrings complain of skin irritation, swelling, and reddening. Even the head of the belt can also cause a painful allergic reaction when the accessory was rubbing against the skin.

Based on reports dailymail.co.uk, the study found, the reason for costume jewelry can cause allergies because the average imitation jewelry is containing nickel. Nickel binding of certain immune system proteins can trigger the disorder, especially in the skin.

For those of you who are vulnerable to allergies, nickel friction on the skin can become infectious agents and trigger inflammation. Studies that have been published in the journal Nature Immunology states, allergic symptoms that can arise due to nickel materials, among others, skin burning, itching, redness, swelling and abrasions.

Therefore, be careful if using imitation jewelry, try not used in a long time.

The purpose of communication is that you and your partner can understand each other In order for an increase in the quality of your relationship. Therefore, communication is often referred to as the basis of success of a relationship. But communicating is not just talk but need some skills in order to achieve communication goals. These three skills are:

1. Skills for listening

This is a very difficult thing for the practice. Though they have ears to hear, not necessarily you really listen to the message mate. Show your partner that you hear so-delivered with a response. Your posture is also important to convince the couple that he was being heard and understood. Maintain eye contact with a partner and posture are not suggesting that you are not lounging. You also sued the couple can empathize, to understand what is thought, felt and experienced. So it can look at the problem from the perspective of the couple.

2. Skills to express yourself and your Feelings

This was not easy. Avoid words that make your message is not clear and accurate. Focus on the things I wanted to say and do not graze other problems. Do not give the message that is incompatible with your attitude and expression. Honesty is also important expressed.

3. Expertise to express

Though honestly and in accordance with the feelings, do not give messages explosiveness. Give a touch of emotion in moderation, so that the message remains clear, If you are angry, show that the things said or done your partner is not fun, but do not need to shout, Because the consequences can obscure the core of your message.

There are times when a couple of nice introverts. If another man outside gregarious, introverted, men usually prefer to be home. However difficult, introverted the man does not easily express their feelings than other men. Buried own problems, but it looks grumpy and not passionate. To deal with this, you need a different trick:

1. Most of all calm yourself first, even though in your heart confused and restless. Make him comfortable with soft words and a smile. If you come grumpy and complaining, it makes it even more shut down.

2. Let the first couple to be alone, maybe he needs time to think about the problem itself. Try to think positive and do not assume. Entertain them-selves and give a warm atmosphere with a cup of tea. Create a more relaxed mind to forget for a moment the problem.

3. When she started to decrease anxiety, you can talk to him the things that light. Fishing talks to the problem but do not push or mention it.

4. Coaching familiarity with the partner relationship introvert with a more intense communication, ranging from mild to serious things. Position yourself as a wife and a friend. You can start with you and your partner used to drink tea together every day. Togetherness 5 to 10 minutes, use while talking about you both faces the day. When the habit has been established, you and your spouse will be used to discuss various things.

5. Explain to the couple that openness is important in the household. Make sure that you love and ready to be a friend and listener. That you feel more appreciated if he would share about the problem.

6. From now on you have to multiply using the language of smiles and touches, because the body language seems more meaningful to your husband rather than spoken language.

Many people argue, jealousy is a sign of affection, but if the husband was jealous all the time, trouble, too. All the people around you who were the target and consequently, you have to apologize to them. How can you not feel uncomfortable and her husband are also more calmly? Try the following ways:

1. Find out why

All action is reaction. Whatever he does to you, there must be the cause. Ask him what makes him jealous. Make a written list of things that trigger her jealous. Make a scale, which made him jealous until a light weight. Hold your emotions, and give an explanation of these situations calmly.

2. Grow Trust

Mutual trust is the basic one in the relationship. Explain to him, that you trust him, and vice versa, you also expect the trust of the husband. Make sure that you maintain a commitment to him.

3. Keep your feelings

There’s nothing like it if provoked feelings of jealousy. So did your husband. Do not often provoke an atmosphere that made him jealous. For example talking about your ex surplus or other man glanced at him.

4. Give peace

One reason is because of lack of jealousy knowing of existence and your actions. Because of that, give peace to your husband. Give the news if you do not leave or arrive on time. Tell her your everyday activities. Introduce him-self to friends and your environment. Occasionally, take it to see what you do in work or day-to-day.