Almost all parents must understand the difficulty of choosing a school for children. With so many school options that are available now: excellent schools, national, international, domestic or religious based. Not to mention the cash register and a variety of school fees. Even harder when the choices you and your husband were different, how the solution and the solution? Remember that children want to go to school is your child alone, so good or your husband, have the right to enter into the child’s life. Also make decisions to send children.

For you and your partner in determining the child’s school is school discipline, the teaching system, the environment, cost, and so on. From this, determine which one takes priority raise their reasons and forms to deal with. Determine the number of school choices based on priorities, as a backup if your child does not like you two main options.

Involve your husband is also in other cases involving school children. Be assured him that it is one way to close to the child’s life. Occasionally, invited her husband to meet teachers, parents of students meeting or introduced by friends two of your children.

Make a turn in assignments to help children make their homework. That is way children will also feel close to you and your husband. Inform also the husband of the child’s achievement in school. If there are problems at school, made it clear that it’s not your responsibility alone, but you and your husband as parents. Faced with the problem without blaming each other, but open-minded.

Certainly not fun if you and your partner are in a “cold war”, mutual silence and the atmosphere became stiff. This usually happens when you hit discord and spouse, Moreover if both sides feel justified and proud to begin reconciliation. Arguments are normal in a relationship. Sometimes the arguments even make your relationship stronger, because it made the argument as a positive sign. Do not fight too long. If a disagreement occurs, try the following ways:

1. But avoid silence. Unless your partner is a psychic, it is difficult to understand the feelings and content of your mind if silent. Conversely, if the silent partner, try to persuade it to talk, for example by making his favorite cup of lemon tea.

2. Men and women tend to have different ways of the communicating
Women tend to be more sensitive and did not talk directly to the point, while men tend to talk straight to the point. Because of that try to explore the core issues you want to discuss with your partner. Limit the discussion to the issue only to be straightforward.
3. Lower your pride and ego when talking about a problem. Instead, listen and understand your partner’s view also to the problem.
4. Create a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere prior to discuss problems. Give a cup of hot lemon tea to break the ice. Then you and your partner are ready to talk with the head cold.