The purpose of communication is that you and your partner can understand each other In order for an increase in the quality of your relationship. Therefore, communication is often referred to as the basis of success of a relationship. But communicating is not just talk but need some skills in order to achieve communication goals. These three skills are:
1. Skills for listening
This is a very difficult thing for the practice. Though they have ears to hear, not necessarily you really listen to the message mate. Show your partner that you hear so-delivered with a response. Your posture is also important to convince the couple that he was being heard and understood. Maintain eye contact with a partner and posture are not suggesting that you are not lounging. You also sued the couple can empathize, to understand what is thought, felt and experienced. So it can look at the problem from the perspective of the couple.
2. Skills to express yourself and your Feelings
This was not easy. Avoid words that make your message is not clear and accurate. Focus on the things I wanted to say and do not graze other problems. Do not give the message that is incompatible with your attitude and expression. Honesty is also important expressed.
3. Expertise to express
Though honestly and in accordance with the feelings, do not give messages explosiveness. Give a touch of emotion in moderation, so that the message remains clear, If you are angry, show that the things said or done your partner is not fun, but do not need to shout, Because the consequences can obscure the core of your message.
