Women Interest

The Cases of violence not only occurs in the household but also during courtship type of physical psychological, sexual, and economic. National Commission on Violence against Women in notes written in the 2008 Annual official portal, the highest type of domestic violence is economic violence that occurs against the wife.

The second highest is a sexual crime in the community. To avoid this, start from the time of courtship. Make sure that the date went well and safe. If not, you should immediately take a decision. Because the violence was happening, it will always be repeated. Tolerance is often given women only make the violence gets worse later. Learn how to date you are healthy and safe:

1. Firmly. Men and women have equal rights to provide boundaries within the relationship. Tell your partner clearly what you can tolerate, and which are not. But not necessarily dominate the other, say with respect for their rights, too.

2. Two-way communication. Communicate, and discuss the desires, dreams, even through your boundaries in relationships. Tell them clearly and firmly from the beginning of a date. Do not exchange pleasantries when it comes to relationships in pairs. After all, you are looking for the companion or not just having fun is not it?

3. Negotiate problems. The difference is not a reason to avoid the couple. As long as both are still open in discussing the problem, any difference or conflict it can be solved by discussion Maybe there eventually one of the parties who did not listen to her wishes. Find a way out that is fair to both parties to negotiate.

4. Eliminate assumptions. Do not assume too much by reading the couple’s wishes his body gesture. Make sure you know the desire to direct speech.

5. Trust instincts. You must be able to feel if things started not comfortable, including the time alone with a partner. Trust your inner heart feelings about the unsafe conditions. Do not just quiet; do something soon.

6. Always updated with information. Following the latest information useful for your personal relationships. At least you can learn from what happened to someone else, and if domestic violence is also happening to you, there are protections in themselves. Or if you are experiencing violence, by reading information from the media you can find out where you can get help.

7. Dare say “no” Say “no” firmly, and do not hesitate if you are persuaded cooed. For example, if your limit is not having sex, but partner sulk, say “no” firmly. Or you’ve repeatedly physically abused, and then sulk feel sorry mate. It is time to say “no” and save your-self.

8. Avoid alcohol and drugs. Flirtations with alcohol or drugs are another way to weaken you. Do not follow this invitation, because it will only plunge you. Manipulation or coercion to do anything, let alone a sexual relationship from your partner is a form of human rights violations by parties who were forced. This can lead to criminal acts such as rape. So, make sure your partner does not have the characters.

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